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Why You Should Use Kindness Elves This Christmas (Instead of the Elf on The Shelf)

With Christmas fast approaching, it won’t be long before a certain elf comes to stay for their annual visit. Each day in December, they bring magic and mischief to our homes – causing chaos all in the name of Christmas spirit. Yet, have you ever wondered what it would be like if they were nicer? This year we invite you to find out! We’ve switched out our Elf on the Shelf and are ready to share all of our secrets about why you should use kindness elves this Christmas.

What are the benefits of using kindness elves?

There are many reasons why you should use kindness elves this Christmas. They encourage good behaviour, promote helping others and set a positive example for your children. But the real magic lies in the lessons they teach us.

You see, despite our best intentions, telling our children that Santa won’t come if they’re naughty puts all of the focus on their negative behaviour. Instead, kindness elves teach us to focus on the positives.

By encouraging acts of kindness and rewarding selfless behaviour, kindness elves teach our children how good it feels to be generous! They also understand that we slip up every once in a while – they’re not here to judge our mistakes or report us to Santa. This removes any pressure or shame our children may feel during the run-up to Christmas.

At the heart of it, kindness elves teach our children that gifts aren’t something to be earned or bargained for – they are a token of someone’s love and appreciation.

an elf

How should you use your elves to encourage kindness?

Since your elves won’t be getting up to their usual mischief this year, it’s a good idea to re-introduce them to your children. Kindness elves often like to introduce themselves with a letter. This way, they can explain why they’ve come to stay and what your children can expect during their visit.

Kindness elves like to spread Christmas cheer with kind gestures. During their stay, they will leave notes and ideas for fun and thoughtful activities for your children. On some days, they will even leave special treats to reward good behaviour! You will still find them hiding around the house (bathing in the kitchen sink or climbing into your mixing bowl), but this year it will be to encourage acts of kindness – like doing the washing up or baking for a neighbour.

25 days of kindness

If your elves need some inspiration, we’ve come up with 25 ideas to help you spread some kindness this Christmas.

  1. Smile at a stranger
  2. Make someone else’s bed (as well as your own)
  3. Give someone a hug
  4. List 3 things you’re grateful for
  5. Bake for a neighbour
  6. Write someone a Christmas card
  7. Donate old toys/clothes to charity
  8. Do the washing up
  9. Visit a relative
  10. Help carry the shopping
  11. Pay someone a compliment
  12. Draw your friend a picture
  13. Tell a family member you love them
  14. Help cook the dinner
  15. Write down your favourite things about your parents/siblings
  16. Hold the door open for someone
  17. Call a Grandparent
  18. Pick up some litter
  19. Leave a kind note for a friend or family member
  20. Tidy your room
  21. Give someone a high five
  22. Help wrap up some Christmas presents
  23. Invite someone new to play with you
  24. Donate some food to your local food bank
  25. Write a thank you letter to Santa

children by a christmas tree

If you’re still wondering why you should use kindness elves this Christmas, we ask you this – what better way is there to spend the festive season than making a habit out of helping others? We hope we’ve inspired you to reinvent your Elf on the Shelf and to spread some extra kindness this Christmas season.

 


At Schoolhouse Daycare, we enjoy learning, encouraging confidence and we love life! If you think your child would enjoy life at Schoolhouse, then please do not hesitate to arrange a visit.

 

Looking for more ideas and inspiration? See more from us here:

  • How Much Do Children Really Need From Santa? The Benefits of Having Less
  • How to have more happiness with less this Christmas
  • 18 Creative Gift Ideas to Save You Money at Christmas
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